QuestionsWhat is love?Crystallisation
What is love?A useful illusion

Crystallisation

Crystallisation; the Salzburg branch; Stendhal on love

Stendhal (Henri Beyle) 1783 · 1842Novelist and analyst of the passions: love is born of a "crystallisation", when the imagination adorns the loved one with a thousand perfections.
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What it claims

Passionate love rests on an operation of the imagination: the lover loves, in large part, the image he has himself built of the loved one. Stendhal sees its source in nature, which commands us to enjoy, and in the idea "she is mine".

Why

The lover keeps adorning the loved one with perfections he invents, like crystals covering a twig.

The same idea through history
Stendhal (Henri Beyle)1822Stendhal calls "crystallisation" the operation by which the lover's mind adorns the loved one with new perfections, and compares it to a branch covered with crystals in a salt mine.
Arthur Schopenhauer1844Schopenhauer also sees love as an illusion, but he places its cause in the instinct at the service of the species, not in the lover's imagination.
In short

"Crystallisation" is an argument by Stendhal (Henri Beyle) (On Love (De l'amour), 1822, ch. II "Of the Birth of Love", 1822) on the question "What is love?" (answer: a useful illusion). Its claim: Passionate love rests on an operation of the imagination: the lover loves, in large part, the image he has himself built of the loved one. Stendhal sees its source in nature, which commands us to enjoy, and in the idea "she is mine". According to AskPhilosophy's logic check (Z3 solver), the argument is valid only if one grants a premise the author leaves unstated (P4). AskPhilosophy presents 3 objections, 0 of them with a documented reply, and the original text behind each premise, checked word for word.

On Love (De l'amour), 1822, ch. II "Of the Birth of Love"
Valid with an implicit premise

In the salt mines of Salzburg, a bare branch is thrown into the depths of the mine. Two or three months later it is taken out covered with sparkling crystals: the branch can no longer be recognised. Stendhal sees in this the image of what happens in a lover's head. Starting from admiration and hope, the mind sets about adorning the loved one with a thousand perfections, drawn from everything that comes along. He calls this "crystallisation". Passionate love would then be less a meeting with a person than a work of the imagination on her.

P1Once love is born of admiration and hope, the lover delights in adorning with a thousand perfections the woman of whose love he is sure.
P2This adornment is a work of the mind: from everything that comes along, it draws the discovery that the loved one has new perfections. Stendhal calls it crystallisation.
P3It is enough for the lover to think of a perfection to see it in the one he loves.
P4 · implicit premiseThe perfections found in this way, by thinking and without checking, are not all in the person loved: like the crystals added to the branch, a large part comes from the lover's mind.
So passionate love rests on an operation of the imagination: the lover loves, in large part, the image he has himself built of the loved one. Stendhal sees its source in nature, which commands us to enjoy, and in the idea "she is mine".

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If you accept every premise, logic forces you to accept the conclusion. So the debate is about the premises.
Checked by a logic solver: the premises cannot all be true while the conclusion is false.
Without the implicit premise: Without P4, the computer finds a world where the lover adorns the loved one with perfections by a work of the mind, and yet these perfections are all real: the lover's attention has only seen what others did not look at.
Valid with P4. P1 to P3 describe what the lover's mind does: it adorns the loved one with perfections, by a work of the mind, simply by thinking. P4 is the missing step: the perfections found by thinking are not all in the person. Without P4, one can grant everything and still hold that the lover's mind discovers real qualities: thinking of a perfection could help to see it, not to invent it.
Analogy. Think of a fan who admires a singer. He reads an interview, sees a photo, hears a rumour, and each time finds one more proof that his idol is exceptional. After a year, the idol he loves has become a character he built himself. Stendhal says the same of the lover, except that love adds desire, and so the need to believe.

Objections

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Each objection is a conversation: click to see who replies and where the debate stands.

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José Ortega y Gasset 1926 · attacks premise 2

In an essay on Stendhal ("Amor en Stendhal", published in 1926-1927 and later collected in Studies on Love), Ortega judges the theory of crystallisation false: it is more concerned with explaining disenchantment than the birth of love. He presents love as a form of attention and knowledge: to love is to give the other an attention that indifferent people do not give, and not to invent qualities for them.

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No reply possible: objection raised in 1926, after the author's death (1842).
The debate goes on (our summary) Stendhal died in 1842: he cannot answer. Our summary: Stendhal does not deny that the lover looks more attentively (his "second crystallisation" is born precisely from doubt and attention). The disagreement is about what attention produces: qualities seen, or qualities added.
Where the debate stands (our summary)Our summary: basic disagreement, with no decisive proof. For Stendhal, the lover's mind adds to the loved one; for Ortega, it sees her better. Both describe the same fact, a very attentive lover, and read it in opposite ways.
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Marcel Proust 1913 · attacks the conclusion

In Swann in Love, Swann finds that Odette looks like Botticelli's Zipporah. He puts a reproduction of the painting on his table, sees in it merits that he congratulates himself on finding assembled in a woman he might possess, and his desire grows from this image. This is crystallisation turned into a novel. But at the end, when Swann no longer loves, he cries out that he wasted years on a woman who was not his type: the narrator calls this a fatuity that returns as soon as Swann is no longer unhappy and his morality drops. The cold look that denounces the illusion is therefore not presented as truer or better than the lover's.

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No reply possible: objection raised in 1913, after the author's death (1842).
The debate goes on (our summary) Stendhal died in 1842, long before this novel: he cannot answer. Our summary: Proust extends Stendhal more than he contradicts him. He shows the illusion at work, then refuses to draw a lesson of triumphant lucidity from it. The quoted passage does not say whether Swann's love was or was not a mistake about Odette.
Where the debate stands (our summary)Our summary: agreement on the fact (the image of the loved one is partly made by the lover) and disagreement on the judgement. Recognising the illusion is not enough, for Proust, to say that love was in vain.
Michel de Montaigne 1580 · attacks the conclusion

In the essay "Of Friendship", Montaigne says that if he is pressed to say why he loved La Boétie, he can only answer: "because it was he, because it was I". This attachment does not rest on a list of qualities, real or lent. He contrasts it with affection for women, whose fire is "more active, more cutting and more bitter", but "rash and fickle", like a fever.

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We have not yet found a direct reply by Beyle) in the texts.
The debate goes on (our summary) Stendhal does not answer Montaigne in the chapter we have. Our summary: Montaigne speaks of friendship, not of passionate love, and on passion he goes rather in Stendhal's direction (a fever). His objection is mainly a limit: there are deep attachments that do not go through added perfections.
Where the debate stands (our summary)Our summary: limited disagreement. Stendhal speaks of passionate love, Montaigne of perfect friendship. The question stays open whether a couple's love can, over time, become an attachment of this second kind.